

The human brain is the most intricate organ in the human body. It produces our thoughts, actions, memories, feelings, and experiences of the world. It grows according to what you feed it: if you feed it negativity, it develops a negative mindset, but if you feed it positivity, it becomes a positive mind. Often, we let our minds control our thoughts and actions, but by training our minds, we can become the boss of our own thinking.
A successful person always visualizes themselves as successful. For example, in his early acting career, Jim Carrey carried a check for 10 million dollars in his wallet as daily inspiration. In 1994, after his role in Dumb and Dumber, he earned the actual 10 million dollars. Have you ever noticed that when you try to stop thinking about something, that’s exactly when your mind focuses on it the most? In such situations, instead of suppressing negative thoughts, we can counter them with positive affirmations. This concept is called aikido, a Japanese term meaning “the way of harmonizing the energy of the opponent to your advantage.” Here, we harmonize negative stuttering thoughts with positive affirmations.
A person who stutters (PWS) often stutters when trying to be perfect, forming sentences in their mind and trying to match them word-for-word. In contrast, a person who has successfully managed stuttering (PWSS) focuses on conveying ideas rather than perfection. When I met Lee in March 2016, he shared one piece of advice that changed my life: stay away from angry people. The moment I distanced myself from negativity and surrounded myself with positive, like-minded people, my life improved, and so did my speech. Clifton, another Certified Coach, explains that when you say “I can” even while nervous or anxious, your mind begins to counter fear-based memories with positive affirmations, making success possible.
Lee also uses advanced mind-training techniques in stuttering therapy, including auto-suggestions (AST), which we practice twice daily, and self-hypnosis (SH). The method emphasizes repetition of fluent thoughts and envisioning fluency as a core part of mind training. Daily reading aloud helps reinforce this by allowing individuals to hear their own fluency. I struggled with saying my name. But after practicing the affirmation “I love to say my name, Prathusha” with emotion and feeling, I began to genuinely enjoy saying it. Within a few weeks, I no longer stuttered when saying my name. Lee often emphasizes that a negative thought cannot enter a mind already filled with positive ones. Building a fear-free memory bank lays the foundation for fluency. AST not only improves speech but also helps overcome challenges like depression, boredom, anger, jealousy, hatred, and insomnia. This is the final piece that allows us to see stuttering as a blessing.